One killer of romance is resentment. What is resentment, how does it destroy love and what can you do if it shows up in your relationship?
Resentment is a form of anger that arises when you feel you’ve been hurt or treated unfairly. It’s a natural and normal response to a situation, a feeling of, “Hey, that’s not OK!” There’s nothing wrong with feeling resentful in the face of unfair treatment. What you choose to do with these angry feelings will likely determine if the situation will be resolved or is likely to be unresolved and repeated in the future.