Recently, I visited friends in a small town in Northern California. Not “Northern California = San Francisco as opposed to Los Angeles” but “Northern California = North of Santa Rosa as opposed to San Francisco.” It was a revelation.
North of Santa Rosa, the hills are covered with vineyards or redwood forests, not housing developments.
North of Santa Rosa, U.S. 101 winds along the rivers whenever possible, because that is the way one could travel between the forbidding mountains of the Coast Range and the desert area of the Central Valley (yes, desert before irrigation).
North of Santa Rosa, wealth comes from agriculture, whether that be dairy, winery, timber forest, orchard or illegal pot farm.
North of Santa Rosa, the largest city is Redding, named for a land agent of the Central Pacific Railroad when the railroad decided to route its north-south track through the town formerly known as Poverty Flats. Today it is best known for a beautiful pedestrian bridge.
It’s easy to make fun of rural pastimes. I couldn’t help but giggle at the front-page article in the Humboldt Beacon lauding the selection of a local girl as California Beef Ambassador, with the quote that she will “be the face of California beef.” And I broke into a laugh as the article noted that the girl’s great-grandmother had been “Cowbelle of the Year” in Humboldt County some years back and her mother, CattleWoman of the Year in 2005.
Then I thought again. It’s a lucky family that can trace four generations in the same community and has carried on a common interest, whether it be agriculture, education or industry, across the same number of generations. There’s a lot to be said for continuity, a lot to be said for roots.
I thought more about roots and continuity when I visited the small cemetery in the town. It was nothing like the carefully manicured death theme parks in metro areas, with their restrictions on size, shape and structure of grave markers and memorial tributes. The graves were mostly marked with tombstones, but also with wooden crosses, hand-carved slabs of redwood or mosaic tile and colored beads set in concrete to spell out the names of the dead. Some family names stretched back to the Gold Rush, when the village was founded. Most of the graves were well tended. Many were festooned with fresh or artificial flowers. One grave was covered with porcelain figurines ranging from the Madonna to Mickey Mouse, all meticulously clean.
My favorite was the grave of “beloved mother” Ruth Miner. Her simple black-marble plaque was carved with her name, birth and death dates. Just below was a second carved marble plaque announcing, “I AM AN ATHEIST. ALL DRESSED UP, NO PLACE TO GO.”
Standing at her gravesite on the hill planted with blooming rhododendrons, I looked over the village with its church spires and beyond to the verdant valley dotted with grazing cows. I thought to myself “Ruth, where would you want to go from here?”