By Dottie Portugal
I asked my mother, Dottie Portugal – who is 93, living alone, driving, writing and entertaining – to share her thoughts about seniors living on their own. Following are her questions to help a senior make the decision.
— Pam Walatka
• Can you stay in the town you are in, where your friends are and where you know your way around the community?
• Do you drive?
• Do you have someone in the area you can call if trouble arises, preferably one or more of your children?
• Is your house within walking distance of a grocery store? (There will be days you won’t feel up to driving.)
• Are you comfortable being alone? Do you enjoy solitude?
• Do you have a dog? The companionship and protection are valuable.
• Can you afford to stay in your home?
• Are you in good health?
• Do you have the names of caregivers who offer quality in-home care should you need it?
• Do you garden?
• Does the idea of assisted living appeal to you or repel you?
• Is your home old-age friendly?
• What is your preference under the circumstances?

















